Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Monday, April 4, 2016

Drug Free Ways To Decrease Anxiety

Anxiety disorders are one of the most common forms of mental illness in the United States, and affect approximately 18% of the adult population. In modern society's hectic, stressed-out, achievement-driven society, many people deal with stress on a regular basis, even if they’re not actively seeking treatment for their condition.

Clearly, there are many different drug free ways to manage anxiety that can be helpful to a lot of people; thus, it's definitely worth trying out a few adjustments in your routine to help drecrease your anxiety levels. The following strategies can easily be incorporated into your daily life, and can make a big difference in your mood, general outlook, and anxiety levels.

Drug Free Ways To Decrease Anxiety

1. Move It

Exercise is well known as a stress-relieving activity.  In fact, most forms of exercise will provide a benefit, and team sports and activities practiced in the outdoors seem to be particularly beneficial for stress reduction.

Yoga can be especially beneficial for people who are dealing with anxiety.  There is ample research backing yaga's efficacy in reducing stress and anxiety; and, because it combines physical movement with attention to the mind-body connection, it's the perfect excersise to reduce anxiety through the encouragement of mindfulness.

2. Talk It Out
Seeking the help of a counselor can be an extremely constructive way to manage your anxiety levels. With the help of a counselor, you will learn coping skills that work for you in the management of your anxiety.

3. Let The Music Play
Kistening to your favorite music when you're anxious can make an immediate difference in your mood.  In fact, studies show that music helps relieve stress, reduce pain, and improve mood for those in health care and other settings including those undergoing surgery, women about to give birth, those with Alzheimer’s disease, abused women living in shelters, those in hospice, cancer patients, those with psychiatric illness, and more. To illustrate how powerful music can be in its effects on the brain, watch this amazing video

4. Get Touchy

Speaking of stress-melting, physical touch is another form of therapy that is well-studied for its benefits in reducing anxiety and promoting mental wellbeing. Massage has been shown to reduce anxiety and stress by reducing cortisol and increasing serotonin and dopamine, which are important hormones in the regulation of mood. 
In addition to massage, acupuncture is another form of treatment that uses physical treatment to address mental wellbeing to reduce stress and anxiety. A recent study in rats showed that acupuncture reduced the stress hormone response in an animal model of chronic stress. There is also evidence that acupuncture’s effect on anxiety is comparable to that of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), a type of counseling often used for those with anxiety and depression. 

5. Just Breathe!

This is the easiest, cheapest (it’s free!), and most immediately accessible way to reduce anxiety in any situation, whether at home, at work, in the car, or any other places that seem to trigger your feelings of anxiety. This strategy is used in mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, and is an effective tool to have in your arsenal for dealing with stress and anxiety. Deep breathing has been shown to activate the PNS (rest and digest!), decrease blood pressure, reduce cortisol, and slow the heart rate. 
Some yoga practitioners recommend 3 Part Breathing as an effective stress-management strategy; but, simply breathing deeply to slow the respiratory rate can help improve your response to stressful events. If you need a tutorial on deep breathing exercises, you can check out this helpful video.

6. Try Quality Supplements

(Please check with your healthcare provider before taking any supplements. These recommendations are intended as general advice only and should not replace medical advice from your primary care physician or other provider.) 
There are some excellent supplements that may be beneficial in decreasing anxiety and stress, including herbs and nutritive formulas. While there are hundreds of combinations that may be beneficial to you, there are a few more well-studied types that will give you the biggest bang for your buck. Some of the herbs that are generally understood to help with anxiety are: California poppy, hops, verbena, chamomile, lemon balm, valerian, rhodiola, lavender, and passionflower. These herbs are available as supplements, tinctures, and even tea blends for those looking to use evidence-based natural strategies for anxiety management.
Many supplements contain a mixture of these herbs, which can be helpful for those looking for a reduction in anxiety without the side effects that often come with pharmaceutical treatment. 
There are some nutritional supplements that are helpful as well. L-Theanine, an amino acid largely found in tea, has been shown to be effective for its anxiolytic effects, including increased alpha brain wave activity and inhibiting cortical neuron excitation. (5) While you can get L-theanine from drinking tea, it’s far more potent in supplemental form, and if you’re dealing with regular anxiety, you may find that it helps keep you calm and focused during the day without causing drowsiness.
Magnesium is also important to supplement with, as most of us are unable to get adequate amounts of it in our daily diets to replace the losses caused by modern day stressors. And research has shown that magnesium deficiency can lead to anxiety and HPA axis dysregulation.  If you prefer not to take magnesium supplements orally, you can also increase your magnesium levels by taking epsom salt baths or using a topical magnesium oil. Whatever method you prefer, finding a way to boost your magnesium levels if you’re struggling with chronic anxiety can be of great assistance.

8. Cut Down on Caffeine

Cutting down on caffeine doesn’t require total elimination of all caffeinated beverages. In fact, going cold turkey on caffeine can actually lead to an increase in mental distress and symptomatic anxiety.
So instead of going cold turkey with caffeine, try reducing the overall caffeine you consume on a regular basis by half. Maybe that means going from 6 cups of coffee per day to 3; or, perhaps, you could switch out one or two cups of regular for decaf coffee or green tea instead. Caffeine is a well-established anxiogenic (i.e. anxiety producing) stimulant, and if you’re dealing with chronic anxiety, it’s worth at least moderating your caffeine intake and trying to reduce it over time.

Let us know of other drug free anxiety reducing tools that work for you with your comments below!

Time To Take Action!

While nothing can completely obliterate stress and anxiety from our lives, especially in our fast paced modern world, we can use these smart, evidence-based strategies to significantly reduce the overall impact that anxiety has on our wellbeing, and improve our general outlook on life and enjoyment of daily activities. 

Life is way too short to be stressed all the time!
To Your Health!


Monday, November 2, 2015

Four Tried & True Anger Management Techniques To Help Your Teens

November, 2015 Parent Update
Self-Control/Anger Management

Watching your teen in a moment of anger can be scary.  Anger management with adolescents is not something most parents want to deal with; but unfortunately, it's something that often can’t be avoided. 

Below are four tried and true strategies (I've even used these with my own children) to help you, and your teen, deal with those moments in which anger takes over:

1. Communication: “There’s nothing wrong with feeling angry.”
At times as a teenager, my now adult son, would become so angry that we needed to help him regain control. Though he's heard it many times before, it was important for us to communicate to him the following message, “There’s nothing wrong with feeling anger; the important thing is what you do with it.”  By acknowledging his anger as a real, valid emotion, we took the first step in successful adolescent anger management.  Second, we gave him the opportunity to regain control by taking a few minutes to gather his thoughts; and then, by taking those moments to enable him to calmly talk about the incident, he could reconnect with his reasoning skill which had shut down during the episode.  As parents, it's important for us to put ourselves in our children's shoes when they're having any issue; and anger is no different.  As you know, it's difficult for any of us to react appropriately or effectively "in the moment" of extreme anger. Speaking out loud, or “verbalizing” about his anger, actually worked to help diffuse the angry situation.

Another central part of communication is listening. Listening to your teen sends the powerful nonverbal message to him or her that, “What you think and feel matters to me. I may not agree with or like what you say; but I’m willing to listen and consider your viewpoint.”  This is one of the best ways we helped with our teen’s anger management.  When kids know that we, as parents, as willing to listen to them, they become much more open. Listening also allowed us, as parents, to show understanding.  We imagined ourselves in our adolescent’s position, and attempted to see things from his viewpoint. Of course, this isn't always easy, and, active listening is definitely a skill that takes practice; but, it's probably the most effective skill you can aquire for your role as a parent.

2. Maintain a healthy lifestyle: Never underestimate the power of exercise.
Getting rid of stress by exercising regularly is very helpful for everyone, especially teens. Also, eating healthy, nutritious foods helps the body maintain proper energy levels, keeps the brain happy, and helps in behaviors related to not feeling well due to improper nutrition.  People who exercise regularly, and who eat well, are less likely to overreact to those annoyances and inconveniences that often crop up in daily life.  School sports, working out at the local gym, bike riding, and walking are good activities for teens to include in their schedules.

3. Improve time management skills
Teens are really busy, and planning their time wisely can be a real challenge.  However, one of the most common anger stressors is poor time management.  When our oldest boys were teens, and even before, we worked with them on maintaining a realistic schedule that would accommodate school, home, friends, and leisure activities.  When your teen is in a rush, and something goes awry in the schedule, he or she likely may react in anger.  Learning how to manage time effectively is a great way to avoid outbursts of anger in your adolescent. 

4. Create a positive learning opportunity
After the negative feelings exacerbated by the angry incident have subsided, we made sure to take a few moments of mindful reflection with our children in order for them to effectively process what had happened, and why it had happened, in order to help prevent the same situations from occurring again.  Of course, new situations will arise; and, at times, children will repeat the same behaviors that have triggered their angry outbursts before; but, remember, we're all a work in progress, and there's no such thing as an instant fix...consistency is so important for behavior change. When reflecting with your kids, try sharing some similar struggles and experiences that you have had, and suggest strategies to avoid such anger meltdowns in the future. Also, ask them for their input with strategies they can try, things that can be done differently next time, etc.  People very often misdirect anger that may be caused by a valid, yet completely different, and often bigger, issue, onto everyday annoyances and inconveniences.  There are valid reasons to become angry, but there are also triggers (sometimes called hot buttons) that can provoke an angry outburst.  When you're processing the occurrence, help your teen recognize the actual trigger of his or her anger, then brainstorm for effective ways he or she can try to handle it.  Remember, not everything works for everyone; so, there should be an interactive, brainstorming, and experimental process in which you help your teen find coping skills that work specifically for him or her.

Once your teen learns to recognize his or her anger triggers, he or she can take steps to avoid them; and, at that point, your teen will be much more effective at considering what reaction(s) he or she could have that will not produce unproductive anger responses when the trigger occurs again. This will help him or her have a more appropriate reaction in future anger producing situations.

As much as many adolescents like to assert their independence, they actually feel more secure when their parents are in charge of the situation, and able to pay attention to their concerns.  Adolescent anger management is an ongoing challenge in many families; but if you have strategies to use, your home can be a much calmer, happier place.

You will find that you may have additional tips to add to this list as you're working through anger management and coping skills with your kids.


School Counselor
Rockport-Fulton High School
1801 Omohundro
P.O. Box 907
Rockport, TX 78381
(361) 790-2220

kkilgour@acisd.org